About Carlos Xuma and Dating Dynamics...

Over the last 5 years, Carlos has helped thousands of men improve their abilities with dating with his e-books, CDs, DVDs, and seminars.

And then recently he came to a realization:

"It was strange," Carlos says, "for years I was giving advice to men on the Internet, and then I'd help the women in my life off-line.

"I've conducted seminars all over the United States and Europe. I've written e-books and recorded CD and DVD programs. And I even own EVERY episode of "Sex & the City." (And, yes, I've seen them all at least two or three times!)

"I've even been on ABC and CBS television, as well as radio interviews.

"Okay, I know - "Big deal, Carlos..."

"Yes, the media recognition for what I'm doing is nice, but I know we need more focus on the relationships we create with others.

"I was talking to Spencer Christian - host of ABC's "View from the Bay" - before I went on his show, and I started to realize something...

"I felt like something was missing in the dating advice I was teaching. (I still feel a bit odd telling you this story, but I think it's important for you to know I'm coming from the heart.)

"I told him that I was analyzing my goals and direction in life, and what I wanted to do with the whole "Dating Advice" area. I was feeling incredibly successful in so many ways, but there was something tickling me at the back of my mind...

"Then I realized what wasn't adding up: I had been neglecting the other half of the equation.

"I suddenly realized that if I didn't provide the advice and materials for BOTH sexes, I wasn't fulfilling my mission, which is to help men AND women get together in better relationships. So I decided it was time to start a dating tips and advice site for women, too.

"Sure, I realized that some of the gals out there might be suspicious of a man who advised guys on how to get more dates - yet never condoning or promoting a 'player' attitude. I instruct guys on how to bring out more of their REAL personalities and passions to awaken attraction between them and women.

"So while I knew women were going to be leery, I also know that they are SMART. Women everywhere are looking for many of the same things as most guys are, only we give off different signals and social indications of where we are and what we're looking for.

"Gender roles have changed, and now we need to re-learn how to interact the way we once did, with our natural sexual instincts.

"Now it's time for me to help the ladies understand what it is men REALLY want from women - and it's NOT just sex.

"(Sorry if that shakes you up a bit, but that's why I'm here...)"

And now Carlos provides his edgy and controversial advice and counseling to women now, too.

You can trust him to give you the straight Truth about dating and attraction with the opposite sex. No smoke and mirrors, or tired clichés. Only advice that will help you find true emotional connection.

Carlos helps you understand the ways that guys respond to women best, and he'll help you find and Get Your Man!

Carlos Xuma's dating tips and advice is seen in:

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