DISC FOUR: Communication and Relationships, 75 Minutes


  • The guys you must avoid

  • How to judge a man's behaviors

  • When is he 'good enough?'

  • Recognize problem behaviors and their extremes

  • What Men REALLY Want from Women

  • What does he want from sex?

  • The attitude that gives him a sense of connection

  • The fundamental thing you must give a man to keep him in a long-term relationship

  • The attitude and thinking to keep you from acting from insecurity

  • Dynamic Tension explained - why you need stress

  • Fixing the paradox of Comfort and Stability

  • The power of familiarity and routines - when it's good to be predictable

  • Why analysis of "the relationship" kills his attraction

  • The two things you must never do or you will break a man's trust

  • Recognize when a relationship is headed for breakup

  • What to focus on when you talk to a man

  • When a man is attracted to the idea of a "relationship"

  • The SUPER SECRET to Getting the Man You Desire

  • How to get a man into a relationship - and be happy about it!

  • The two kinds of love "shoppers" - and which one you want to be

  • The Big Secret of which woman a man will marry

  • What he must understand about you to keep him

  • The ultimate display in the social marketplace

  • How to turn a friend into a lover

  • The power of shared experience to build connection with men

  • Handling Communication Problems

  • How women destroy intimacy and connection

  • How to reverse criticism and motivate him to change

  • The big mistake women make with sex

  • The "Pre-Commit" mistake

  • The mistake of over-identification

  • Where relationships start to spiral down

  • The 'Pressure Valve,' and how communication problems begin

  • How women and men approach communication and bonding - and the differences you must know

  • When a man will rebel against you

  • The solution to almost every communication problem with men

  • What you can tell a man to keep him listening to you

  • The 9 Super Communication Secrets for Women and Men

  • Understanding and handling the male emotional response

  • Where to get your advice - and not to!

  • Where and when you must never talk about relationship problems

  • What you're probably not communicating to him that he needs to hear

  • What you must give a man to ensure he talks to you in the future

  • Carlos' Relationship Maintenance Program

  • The first mistake most women make in a new relationship

  • How to "stay sexy" for him - and keep him sexy, too

  • How to speak his language

  • How to give to get your needs met

  • How to express your desires positively instead of negatively

  • The power of Irregularity and the role of Novelty in the relationship

  • Online Dating Secrets
    • The biggest online dating fears for men and women - and they're not the same!
    • How to handle your photos - the kinds of photos to use, and NEVER use
    • What to write about in your profile - and what to leave out
    • What most women are using in their profiles that is costing them
    • What to never hint at in your profile - and one phrase to never use
    • Knowing which emails to ignore and avoid
    • How to handle the first meeting - and what to never do
    • The keyword strategy for saving you headaches on dates
    • Where to go - and not go
    • How to maximize your time and meet more men
    • How to avoid a misinterpretation on the meeting
    • How to move on without hurting feelings
    • The one thing you must communicate in your profile that quality men are looking for

  • And Much More...
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