Do You Want to Create a Passionate, Heartfelt Connection With the Man of Your Dreams?

Do you want to create a dream relationship of excitement and romance with a man that genuinely MOVES you and stirs your desire?

Would you like to learn the ways to be irresistibly attractive to your soul mate when you find him?

Dear Friend,

Have you ever felt like the dating world is a confusing and lonely place?

Do you find yourself confused frequently about what it takes to create a lasting and happy relationship with a man?

Do you ever wish you knew the real "rules" to the dating game and knew how men really worked?

I know a lot of women that feel this way. Very often they also feel a strange contradiction in that they feel if they learn how things really work in relationships they will spoil the fun and mystery of it all.

This really isn't true at all. In fact, more possibilities open up to you when you keep your dreams near your heart, but your eyes on the prize of realizing your own needs for authenticity and love.

Tell me if any of these situations sound slightly familiar:

Sometimes you'll go out for a date with a perfectly "nice" guy, and then at dinner he reveals Dr. Jekyll and proceeds to berate the waitstaff for their service and generally acts like a jerk.

OR you're dating a guy with the looks, the prestige, and the class you've always wanted in a relationship, and on the third date he proceeds to talk about his mom and his last seven ex-girlfriends over his seven glasses of Cabernet...

OR you're out with your boyfriend at a very romantic restaurant, and you notice that his wandering eye is looking at every woman in the room except you - and you know you're dressed better and look better than all of them...

OR you sleep with a guy - maybe faster than you wanted to. Later on you get that knot in your stomach that tells you it was a mistake. And then your fears are realized when you can't keep the connection with him...

OR you reach that decision point in a relationship - maybe eight or twelve months out - where you want to know where this is all going... and after you have "the talk," he starts to pull away and get distant...

OR you find yourself thinking constantly about a guy you're with, and your girlfriends are giving you all kinds of crazy advice, some of it helpful, but most of it is confusing. You know you want to trust your own instincts with guys, but they never seem to act the way you expect. And your girlfriends don't seem to have all that much better luck a lot of the time, too.

I know I could go over these scenarios until you screamed (hey, you might be screaming already) but that's not what we're here for.

We need to find the solutions to your situation and give you the dating secrets that will give you the same success as the most beautiful and confident women on the planet.

Have you ever known certain women that seemed to be able to handle their relationships with men with a confident and easy intuition? They never seem to have a problem starting a man's attraction - and keeping it.

I've spoken with women everywhere, and most of them want the same things. As a matter of fact, they also want the same things MEN do. (Lucky for you, you're getting the inside tips and trade secrets about men from a man.)

But you know what?

That doesn't mean men are easy to understand. In fact, they can be completely baffling to figure out when you're in the middle of an argument or a discusson over your relationship - all because of our different communication styles.

Now, I'll be honest with you.

I'm a bit of a "double-agent."

Let me explain...

For the last 5 years or so, I've been giving dating advice for men on how to build REAL and genuine attraction with women. I founded the principles of what I call "R.E.A.L. Game" (TM) so that more guys could feel comfortable revealing their TRUE personalities to women and create more authentic and lasting connections.

I wanted to get rid of the fake pickup lines and phony behavior...

You see, I'm a little "old-fashioned." I still believe that men and women make great couples, and I know that when we know more about how the other sex thinks and works, we can create those romances that make your heart sing.

The reality I discovered was...

Women Need Advice on Men.

And not just any of the usual dating advice for women. You've probably read a lot of the generic stuff you get on the news sites and the fluffy filler that passes as the latest "survey" or "poll."

No, you want the inside secrets on what men want, how to get a guy that really wants you and what you have to offer, and the relationship that lasts.

You want to know how to make a relationship with him that really connects on a powerful and intimate level.

I'm here to reach out and help the girls as well as the guys so that I can fulfill my mission of bringing men and women together in better relationships.

Now, do you want to know:

"Why Do Men Pull Away?"

"Are ALL Men Afraid of Commitment?"

"How Do I Keep His Interest?"

"Should I Listen to My Girlfriend's Advice?"

Have you had any of these situations come up in your life:

• An interesting guy asks you out on a date. You have a wonderful time. He gives you a knee-trembling kiss at the door, and he tells you he'll call you soon so you can go out again.
  
  You never hear from him again.
  
  
• You've been dating a guy for a few weeks, and things are really starting to get deep. You catch yourself buying him a toothbrush for the next time he stays over. But suddenly he starts pulling away and becoming more distant.
  
  
• You've been dating a guy for a while, and you want to get closer, but he seems bored with things. You find yourself struggling to keep his interest in the relationship.
  
  
• You feel that are growing and giving more in the relationship, but he doesn't seem to reciprocate. In fact, the more vulnerable you become, the more he seems to pull back and become distant. The more you try to explain and talk about how you feel, the more he seems to lose interest.

And now I want to ask you a few questions. Be truthful to me and to yourself when you answer them, okay?

• When you go out to meet men, do you feel like you have the power over the sex, but not over the connection between you?
  
  
• When you're out on a date, do you feel like you're missing important signals from the guy that would help things go smoother?
  
  
• Do you ever find yourself worrying that what you assumed you knew about men was somehow not entirely correct? In fact, it seemed wrong a great deal more often than you'd expect...?
  
  
• Do you ever wish you could just ask a guy "what are you looking for?" and get a straight answer from him?
  
  
• Do you ever see other women who seem to have no problem starting that connection with men, and get relationships all the time, and you wonder how they do this?
  
  
• Do you ever wonder what the REAL qualities are that you should be looking for in a man?
  
  
• Do you frequently find yourself in short term relationships that fizzle before something really special could develop? And it always happens at the same point?
  
  
• Are you intimidated by the prospect of dating after divorce, or after a breakup?
  
  
• Do you want to use methods like online dating or speed dating and get quality men?
  
  
• Do you keep running into the same dating mistakes, over and over, and you want to know how to stop sabotaging your chances?

Are You Ready to Learn a Technique for Self-improvement That Will Give You the Relationships You Always Wanted?

One of the things I found out when I was "in the field" researching (otherwise known as "dating") was that women have just as many questions about men as men do about women.

Both sexes are confused about the needs of the other.

This didn't make sense to me, I thought. Aren't there a billion-and-one self-help relationship books on the shelf? Why aren't they addressing these common dating issues?

Then I went and read their books, and the answer was loud and clear.

The "experts" out there are simply not seeing something that every woman (and man) is experiencing out there in the dating world.

There Are 3 Things Holding You Back From Getting the Man You Want in Your Life...

Do you know what they are?

You see, there's the way we WISH things were, and the way they actually are.

I used to run into this over and over in my own dating experiences. I'd start out on a high note with a woman, we'd both jump in head first, and then discover that just a couple weeks down the road we'd be disconnected and unable to keep the excitement and passion alive.

What we were missing was this important fact of romance:

Your Heart Rules Your Mind.

No matter how much we wish it were different, there are certain necessary games with human behavior that must be played out. We don't trust words because we know they can lie. But actions speak volumes.

Let's talk about those 3 things that are holding you back from your success with attracting a man and getting the boyfriend you deserve. I call these the three limiting beliefs that women often have about guys - or the 3 Big Myths. Most of the gals I talk to don't WANT to believe them, but the evidence sometimes seems overwhelming.

#1 MYTH: You need to be a slinky, skinny super model to attract a man.

Oh, I see this one ALL the time. Hear about it, too. I know it's something you deal with every day.

Girls believe that guys want what they put on all the magazine covers, or in the movies. The super-skinny model is a product of the last 30-40 years of media and marketing, oddly enough.

For hundreds (and even thousands) of years before, guys were into the "Botticelli" body. You know, full hips, full figure gal. She's the one in all those paintings with cherubs feeding them grapes.

What happened?

Well, without getting too political here, let's just say that you can't keep people buying things and consuming products when they're satisfied and feeling good about their lives. (Thank you, Madison Ave.)

The job of marketing is to make you feel a little UN-happy with your life, and then WHAMMO! They provide the thing you need to fix it for just $24.97 at your local retailer - or cosmetics counter.

What's the one thing that you can keep a person struggling with forever and they will never quite get under control?

If you guessed "body image" for a thousand, you should be on Jeopardy. You're absolutely right.

More money is spent on weight loss and exercise programs than you can imagine.

• FACT: An estimated $150 BILLION will be spent in 2007 on weight loss.
  
  
• FACT: Over 62% of adults are dieting and 18% are constantly on a diet

The truth is that guys are nowhere as keenly focused on a women's weight as you might think. And it's not nearly as important as her ATTITUDE.

Remember, just because sex sells doesn't mean it's the only currency in relationships. We'll come back to this one in a minute...

#2 MYTH: You need to sleep with a man quickly, or you'll lose his interest.*

(*Sometimes known as the "three-date" rule.)

Yes, it's there. It's unspoken, but it hangs like a dark cloud over every potential dating situation. It's not that you might not WANT to 'do it' a bit sooner, but there sometimes seems to be an expectation of fast intimacy that you need to live up to.

Hold on to your hats, gals.

You will actually keep him around longer by defying the 3-date rule than you will by succumbing to it. I discuss this in the Get Your Man program, but suffice to say that the lasting relationships are all built on healthy and natural sexual tension.

Let me say that again...

We're not talking about being a 'tease' here, nor am I referring strictly to sex and physical intimacy. We're talking about setting up the right level of constructive emotional desire that will create lasting connection over the long haul.

(Most guys aren't even aware of this one, and it will really shake you up when you hear the whole truth.)

So what exactly is "natural" sexual tension?

This is where a man and woman meet and project the most confident and authentic versions of themselves. And, by doing so, they let go of their "getting" and "protecting" emotional behaviors that distance us from the people who want to get close.

#3 MYTH: Guys generally avoid getting into committed relationships.

Ah, yes, the old "play the field" myth. Just like in the movies where every guy is a committed bachelor, and the woman must conquer him. (This metaphor isn't necessarily inaccurate, only the stereotypes...)

You ever run into a guy that you knew couldn't stay in a long-term relationship?

Well, the truth is that both sexes have this problem. There ARE guys who want a long-term relationship. More than you know, in fact.

There are certain indicators a guy is looking for in a woman that he will stick with, and it almost always boils down to a question of "Greener Grass."

It's a natural human need to keep our options open until we face some kind of a deadline or call to action. Men are just like women in this respect.

The reason stems not from his own desire to commit or not, but from how much he feels like he has something special and valuable that he doesn't want to lose.

We're drawn to certain things that don't make logical sense, but they work on a powerful level in human attraction and desire.

They have emotional logic.

But then the question comes up about using manipulation and tactics to find a mate. Back in the 1990s there was that book about "rules" to get a man interested in you and "trick" him into marrying you.

I'm here to tell you that you don't have to resort to manipulation to get a boyfriend. Nor do you have to play with insecurities - yours or his.

What you do need to know is that what men are attracted to is much more "illogical" than you possibly knew.

In fact, the things you thought were important, like your weight, your hair color, and your breast size are actually not nearly as important as the media may have led you to believe.

Yes, you can get a boyfriend without being a size 1, or looking like a Playboy bunny.

(After you're done breathing a sigh of relief, let's move on... :-)

Of course appearances do matter, but not in the way you probably were led to think after a steady diet of fashion magazines and celebrity profiles.

I just put the finishing touches on my first CD program for women. It's called "Get Your Man." I consider it the tell-the-truth version of some of the things you may have thought of as gospel when it came to dating men.

I know I might not be too popular with the "Relationship Experts" out there, but I did everything I could to maintain the Truth in this program rather than just spouting the same old tired cliches of men and what they are REALLY like.

And the best part is that it's written by a guy who knows what guys are thinking.

Me!

I've been through it all, and I know from experience what it is that men are thinking when they go out and meet women - online, at bars and clubs, at parties, in bookstores, in matchmaking events ... just about everywhere you can meet a person. I've been in long-term, short-term, any-term relationships. I've loved, lost, and loved again.

(Oh, boy. That sounds so corny, but it's true.)

Yes, I know that I'll probably anger the guys out there that don't want our inner workings exposed to the ladies, but the reality is that it's not worth hiding. What I want to show you is how to make things better for you AND him.

It's a win-win situation.

Have you ever heard this joke before?

If Men TRULY Ran the World:

1. Birth control would come in ale or lager.

2. Valentine's Day would be moved to February 29th so it would only occur in leap years.

3. Garbage would take itself out.

4. Telephones would cut off after 30 seconds of conversation.

5. Hallmark would make "Sorry, what was your name again?" cards...

You get the point.

Jokes like this are amusing, but they don't help us overcome the differences between men and women.

Instead of having a new joke for every situation, you can learn skills to work with our gender traits instead of struggling against them.

SPECIAL TIP: Here's What Men Wish Women Knew About Them...

Here's a dating tip that men want you to know, but never want to have to tell you (the same way you never want to tell him when to surprise you or romance you):

A guy never wants to feel like the woman is pulling him along to her imagined life with him, or that she's heading toward commitment as a goal for him. He wants to feel as if he was the one doing the pursuing (mostly), and the one who feels drawn into a relationship with you.

Not because you need him, but because he WANTS you.

And men will not think about the future with you until they believe you're really here with him in the present.

Wouldn't you Like to Feel Connection and Love in ALL Your Relationships?

When was the last time you felt GREAT about your relationship with a man?

If you think back, I bet you can probably remember a time - even if it was only momentary, where everything seemed perfect. You felt calm around your boyfriend - at ease, radiant, healthy and alive in the moment with him.

Dare I say it ... "in love."

With the "Get Your Man" program, all your relationships can be like that, even while in the middle of a crisis or at a difficult time. You'll let go of the negativity, uncomfortable emotions and stresses that are holding you back.

And you'll even be able to access the special feelings of inner security, a sense of being in control, and powerful, passionate connection with the man you want.

Wouldn't it be wonderful to experience these deep feelings of attraction and honesty all the time?

These are time-tested and proven over the ages from the successful couples I've seen and experienced. You can now share in the magic of what they've found.

Admit it - haven't you always wished you could read a man's mind when you were out on a date with him?

No, not the part of his mind that's wondering what you look like naked, but the part that's really wondering if you might be his one-and-only - his "soul-mate"?

(Oh, yes ... guys do think about this when we meet a dynamic woman. Part of what I show you is how to be that stunning and attractive to a man.)

Haven't you always wondered why they think the way they do?

And you probably even had a part of your mind that was willing to accept that it might be different than the way you do, as long as you could understand it.

Wouldn't it be great to figure men out in a way that helps you instead of making you roll your eyes...?

Now you can!

You can see that I wanted to pack this CD program with information that you could actually USE to improve the quality of your dating.

Let's face it - we all want to believe in destiny, but we eventually learn that to have the kind of relationship you want in life, you need to CREATE it.

But knowing how to create it is most of the effort - and it's what I show you how to do in the "Get Your Man" program.

So Here's What You Can Do About Your Dating Situation -

Whatever it is...

I decided that it was time to tell women what was really going on in a guy's head. The real reason men make the choices they do.

And how you can use this secret "intel" to get more of what you want from your dating.

I know that sometimes you find what you're looking for in a relationship for a time, but very often we don't. That doesn't mean you don't have an ally in this battle.

The information in my "Get Your Man" CD program is designed to help you avoid years of mistakes on the road to find the relationship that really opens your heart. Many women will never learn the essential dating tips that I've packed into every one of these audio discs.

You're going to learn the secrets that only the successful women know - the women who seem to date and have great relationships effortlessly.

Will it work for you?

I believe it will.

Just think: If you can learn ONE new idea in this program that helps you get a date with just the next interesting guy you come across out there, how much would that be worth to you?

Or what if you're able to turn around a situation that is going south on you because you're not sure which way to go...? You could save the relationship you're in, or decide that it might be time for the next opportunity and you save your heart some ache...

What is that kind of knowledge worth?

Or, even still, what if you manage to put these principles to work in your life and you improve not only the relationships you have with men, but the connections you have with your girlfriends, your parents, your brothers and sisters, or your children...?

Because ultimately I believe that I'm giving you the relationship strategies that will bring you deeper understanding and loving bonds with all the people you encounter, and help you deal with the day-to-day demands of all your relationships.

I don't just want you to have a better dating life... I want you to experience the joy and confidence of a life you design for yourself and live on YOUR terms.

What is that kind of opportunity to learn and enhance your experience of life worth to you?

- A hundred dollars?

- A thousand?

I know from experience that this kind of knowledge is beyond price.

When you're experiencing the bliss of a relationship that gives you the sense of tenderness and passion with a man that you deserve, you'll look back on this as one of the most important investments you ever made. There can be no regrets.

Don't take the chance of going through the same old frustration and pain. Don't let opportunity to take control of your dating life sneak by you.

It's time to be the owner and designer of your relationships and your happiness...

The quality and strength of the connections you have is what makes life enjoyable to you. By learning how to control a few areas of your dating and communication skills with men, you can reclaim your personal power over your relationships again.

Remember, this program carries my unconditional 90 day money-back guarantee.

Try the program, listen to the audio, and use the principles. If you aren't satisfied, contact me within 90 days and I'll cheerfully return your investment.

There's nothing to risk.

I'm totally convinced you'll find this program a wealth of information, an invaluable reference, and I stand behind it.

Look, if you really want to get control over your dating life, and take active steps to find the kind of quality, vibrant relationship you always wanted, now is the time to do it.

Every minute you wait, every second you tell yourself that you can do fine without an understanding of these complex dynamics with men, you're making it ten times harder to make the changes you need to improve your love life.

If you don't make the commitment to yourself to learn the Truth about men and relationships right now, you might never get the kind of clarity and happiness you deserve in your relationships.

Take the first step, risk free, right this second...

Do you know how to handle the man or dating relationship to get exactly the results you want?

Unless the answer is an absolutely unqualified YES, you need this program right away...

My experience has taught me a very uncomfortable truth that I need to share with you. If you don't make the decision right now to get this part of your life taken care of, it's very unlikely you will do it later on.

I don't want you caught in a downward spiral of dead-end relationships and constant frustration - or worse: settling.

If you're serious about making the life you want with the man you want, then the best thing you can do is to get the information that will help you and put it to work for you right away.

Learn why things did or didn't work in the past, and get on with your next opportunity for love and satisfaction with your relationships.

P. S.: I'm so confident that you'll love these CDs that I'm backing it with my ironclad 100%, money-back guarantee. If you aren't positively impressed and blown away by the material, I'll cheerfully refund your investment.