SUBJECT: Why men pull away
SUBJECT: The difference between men & women
SUBJECT: Breaking news on men...?

According to a new study recently released: "Women immerse themselves in their romantic relationships, while men place their romantic partners on an equal but distant footing."

The study shows that - generally - women appear to be more invested in their relationships than men and that their happiness and well-being is more dependent upon how things are going in their intimate relationships.

This probably comes as NO surprise to you - or me.

Women are biologically wired to be the nurturers. They are the ones with the skills to anticipate the needs of their partners, take care of nurturing the relationship and do the problem solving when something is off.

Guys are more biologically wired to be the providers and protectors.

It's not that the relationship isn't important to them, it's just that they show it in different ways - by working hard, establishing a career - and by maintaining an emotional distance.

You might be asking yourself, "How can I change him? How can I make him more involved in our relationship?"

First of all, remember that ancient advice about trying to change men - or anyone, for that matter.

If you haven't already heard it a billion times - don't try to change him.

But if you can't change him, how can you get him to open his heart and adore you the way you know you deserve?

Well, it turns out there IS a way - and you can use this to get what YOU need from your relationship.

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SUBJECT: Are You "Crazy"?
SUBJECT: "B*tch, Are You "Crazy"?
SUBJECT: "He's not that complicated..."

A friend of mine sent over a link to an article someone had written recently. It wasn't really meant to be offensive, but the title just made me cringe:

"B*tch, Are You Crazy?"

It was all about how women are creating situations that don't exist in their heads, based on clues they are over-interpreting. The signals he is giving off.

Well, I think we can all agree that most women do this at least once in a while.

(Though, I don't think women are crazy, nor do I really like the use of the "B" word when referring to them. I know it's become popular in slang, but it doesn't feel very respectful. Just my 2 cents.)

So when it comes to this over-interpretation, here's the part that makes most women scratch their head: Most guys are NOT sending off signals the way you might think.

Before you think I'm off my rocker here and send me some nasty email, please allow me to explain.

Women are very used to communicating with other women.

Women experience the wondrous and subtle parts of friendship and love through conversation and communication.

Women have a very particular communication style, and it's much more sophisticated and elegant than how men typically communicate.

You see, from early in their lives, girls grow up learning how to talk to other girls with a very specific goal:

Stay Connected.
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In fact, that could be the chant you would hear if you could tune into that vibration in the back of your mind.

"Stay connected... Stay connected..."

There's also a more subtle chant going on in there, too. It's saying:

"Don't confront... Don't confront..."

Because that might break the connection with your friend. Or your lover... or whoever.

I don't want to dive into all the scientific reasons for this, but it has to do with women being the primary bonding force in groups.

Women understand the value of love as connection in our lives.

The connections and loving relationships you have also give you a feeling of grounding and security.

As a result, women communicate more indirectly to avoid threatening the connection. They will "feel out" a situation to avoid any kind of misunderstandings that could threaten that connection.

Men, however, are brought up in a completely different way.

We're brought up to be competitive. Independent. Loners.

It's a frustrating and isolating part of being a guy, but it's part of our development that prepares us to give women that shell of loving protection and security she desires from us.

We guys don't get the same ‘communication and connection' training that women do. In fact, relatively speaking, we're kind of stunted in that area compared to women.

So we're pretty blunt and plain-spoken when it comes to communications with women.

In other words, when a guy says something, there's very rarely any hidden meaning in it. He typically says what he means.

Oh, sure, we don't want to hurt your feelings just the same. But we rely much less on the non-verbal signals and implications that women often use in their communication.

What does this mean to you?

Well, very simply, it's just that there's not as much interpretation needed to figure out what a man is thinking or feeling.

I've had many girlfriends in the past who found it simply shocking that there wasn't more going on behind what men are saying.

Once, when my friend said he wasn't sure if he could make it to an event, his girlfriend kept him on the phone an additional 15 minutes, convinced that he was being 'reluctant to commit' - to the date, mind you - because there was "something else" going on.

He eventually did convince her that it wasn't related to his feelings for HER - it was because of a simple scheduling conflict.

Hey, it seemed simple to him, but he didn't realize to her that this could be seen as a signal of distance between them.

There is another side to this that I want to validate for you - and that is that if your gut is telling you something is up, you can generally trust that feeling.

Very often, the feminine subconscious will pick up on the parts where his words don't match his body language, and spot troubles in advance.

The trick is in knowing when you're over-interpreting because you need there to be something more, or because you sense there is something more to be uncovered.

You simply need a healthy balance of attention on the relationship.

Balance out your time in your relationship with time outside it so that you don't fall into the trap of letting your connection with your man preoccupy your thinking.

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SUBJECT: Get Him To Adore You Again
SUBJECT: Get Him To LOVE You - All over again
SUBJECT: Does love have to fade?
SUBJECT: Like when you first met him

Does love have to fade?

Can't it always be like it was when you two first met?

Well, we all know in our hearts that love can never be as powerful and magical as it is when it first starts - BUT...

We also know we WANT it to be, don't we?

Just to feel that inexorable pull of chemistry and attraction that makes the world a whirlwind of excitement.

Where all the colors are brighter, and the smells so much sweeter...

Sure, some people may accuse you wanting a fairy tale romance. They shake their head and tell you it's a dream, and you need to "get real..."

But that's okay.

There is no reason you can't have some of that romantic fantasy become REAL for you.

I want to share with you 3 ways you can get your man to adore you.

But beware! If you use these "spells" with men, don't be surprised if he becomes truly enchanted with you.

How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 1:

Let Him Cathc You...

Look, I won't insult your intelligence by telling you for the umpteenth time that men like sex.

(Okay, they LOVE it - and everything about it.)

But the truth is that YOU do, too! Just in a slightly different recipe. As in, not as fast...

Sometimes in the relationship, his mojo level drops - and he doesn't seem as into sex. The roles seem to reverse a bit.

And that leaves you feeling unattractive. Undesirable.

BUT there's something here you can use to your advantage...

I propose that you let him catch you.

You know - doing IT.

Pleasuring yourself.

C'mon - as the old joke goes: 80% of women masturbate...

And the other 20% are lying.

Just let him walk in on you sometime... or maybe invite him just to watch.

If you're shy, you can just tell him that when he revs the engine in his car, you feel the vibrations and get a delicious jolt of "mmmm." Squirm and smile to make the point...

You see, flashing this kind of sexual side to yourself is something that most men never get to see.

Seriously, most men don't really think women enjoy sex all that much - because of the difference between how men and women prioritize and handle it.

It's old, lame programming that most men still fall for.

You'd be astonished at the kind of wide-eyed fascination this will create in him.

Which leads me to the next tip...

How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 2:

Keep Things Light And Fun

Here's a tricky one...

You see, men bond by sharing time with someone.

NOT by talking.

NOT by sharing emotions and experiences verbally.

Which - by the way - is completely opposite to how most women bond with each other - through communicating.

The one thing that will sneak under a man's radar is having a woman around that FEELS like she's a buddy of his.

(With a sexual edge, of course.)

So the more you can just hang out with him - and his friends, if that's every so often - and spend time with him, the more likely he is to turn around one day and figure "Hey, she's my girlfriend."

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Because he wants your relationship to HAPPEN to him without having to plan it out or make sure it's "going somewhere."

Or declaring it - until AFTER the fact.

That doesn't mean you can't get the satisfaction of verbal communication or commitment from him.

What it means is that the more you keep the experience of being around you light and fun, the more he will naturally WANT to be around you. And that creates the bond that will lock him to you.

Unfortunately, when women feel anxious about their attachment and commitment to a man, they tend to do the opposite.

Things get "heavy" and oppressive to him, and he pulls away to escape that feeling.

So always remember: Light and Fun!

And the best way you can do that is to use Tip #3... How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 3:

Give him an ULTIMATE Date...

Guys want a lot of the things women do, funny enough. One of those things we like is to be swept off our feet.

Sounds kindy wussy and weird, huh?

Well, it's slightly different for guys than the way you do, but it's close. And it comes from a man's perspective and needs.

Allow me to explain:

Men invest a lot of emotional and intellectual energy up front to get your attention and interest.

We have to overcome that great Fear of Rejection in order to start a conversation with you.

Then we have to setup dates, and *hope* you like what we've done for you.

And pray that you are actually going to be sexually attracted to us and not condemn us to the "Friends Only" category.

Sometimes it feels to him that he's putting out unbelievable amounts of effort based on the slight chance you could be interested in him.

That's why it can come as a blessed relief when YOU plan a date for us.

First off, it shows your interest level - that you're into him.

Which is something a man is desperate to catch a glimpse of in the early stages. And he hopes to see it later on in the relationship as well.

It's very reassuring to know that you will step up and show some effort right there with him.

Second, it just lets us catch our breath and rest for a moment or two before continuing our pursuit.

So plan a night out with just the two of you that makes him feel valued and respected.

And appreciated.

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SUBJECT: Is he pulling away from you...?
SUBJECT: Is he cold to you?
SUBJECT: Are you growing apart?

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John, her boyfriend, was cold and distant to her, and she feared the worst.

"I'm wondering if he's falling out of love with me," she sobbed. "Or worse - maybe he's cheating on me."

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SUBJECT: What's REALLY important about men...
SUBJECT: What you don't know about men...
SUBJECT: What you MUST know about men...

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SUBJECT: Here's your free book: The Ultimate Romantic Date
SUBJECT: Grab your Ultimate Romantic Date Report
SUBJECT: Confessions of a commitment-phobe???

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