Why Online Dating Is a Poor Way to Find Love

By: Carlos Cavallo
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You might have read and heard “success stories” about couples who met online, fell in love and now married.

And - maybe - you’re thinking of trying out this online strategy to help you find that man - Mr. Right.

But, before you do…

You might want to check out this article and view the other side of the online dating world. It could be something that could give you a better understanding of what you’re getting into…

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...and if online dating is the right (or only) method for you.

Yours in Perfect Passion,

- Carlos Cavallo

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Title: Why Online Dating Is a Poor Way to Find Love

Some people believe that recent research on online dating/matching sheds a new light on understanding attraction, love, and romantic relationships.

I argue that, however, although the internet has helped few find romantic relationships and marriages, the research has overlooked various defects and problems associated with this type of "contact." I will examine a couple of them.

The research findings can be summarized as followings:

  1. Online daters tend to fill in the information gaps with positive qualities in a potential partner; on the other hand, everyone wants to make the self appear as attractive as possible to potential dates by exaggerating the self desirable traits.
  2. There are…

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