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Are You Growing Apart?

I sat there across from Maria, cradling my Starbucks coffee, while she cried into hers... John, her boyfriend, was cold and distant to her, and she feared the worst. "I'm wondering if he's falling out of love with me," she sobbed. "Or worse - maybe he's cheating on me." If you've ever felt like this, I have good news for you: […]

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Don't make this HUGE mistake...

Don't Fall Victim To The "Refunder" Mentality! How To Avoid This Deadly Dating Trap... I wanted to share an excellent article with you. My good friend Shelly McMurtry wrote this a while back, and she gave me permission to print it here. She spotted something that I think you should know about when it comes […]

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What would Spock say about your relationship?

I've got an interesting question today from a reader who is in a "sorta" long distance relationship. QUESTION From a Reader: Hi Carlos, I just got your program a few days ago and am enjoying listening so far and am looking forward to it's entirety and learning a lot. I am in a situation now […]

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Winning Your Ex Back With ... Fear?

DATING QUESTION FROM A READER: Thank you so much for making The Secret Password To His Heart... I was dating a guy whom I loved and cared about a lot, but at the same time couldn't connect to him anymore. We both noticed that I had changed and I realized we weren't on the same […]

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Is There Something Wrong With Men Today?

Is there something wrong with men today? Seriously - is there something up with guys and how they're acting? Are they... dare I say it, less manly than they used to be? Well, men are still essentially MEN. That much is true. But many of the "old school" manly behaviors are being lost in today's […]

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Why Men Become Distant

According to a new study recently released: "Women immerse themselves in their romantic relationships, while men place their romantic partners on an equal but distant footing." The study shows that - generally - women appear to be more invested in their relationships than men and that their happiness and well-being is more dependent upon how […]

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What To Do When He's Confused

QUESTION FROM A READER: Hi Carlos, I bought your program today and have already done 3 modules..... It's definitely very informative and I love the journal idea! I do have a weird issue that I would love your opinion on because I don't know what to do. In the beginning of may I bumped into […]

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7 Relationship Kisses of DEATH

I was talking to my friend, Annie, the other day, about what that "key" moment is that starts men pulling away from you. I wondered if there was a small event - a trigger - that led to the BIG event of him keeping you at a distance... Or pulling away from you. Have you ever wondered why it […]

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7 Ways Men Show You Their Love

When we look at love and relationships, sometimes the one truth that gets missed in all the talk and analysis is the one that matters the most. And understanding that truth tells you how men show you their love. Men have a built-in desire that many women don't fully appreciate. It's natural and innate, and […]

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Discover Long-lasting LOVE In A Fast-moving World

Are you ready for true love? The kind of deep, passionate love that makes your heart flutter and satisfies your soul? The kind of love that makes you feel safe, warm and supported? The kind of love where you recognize yourself in the other person, and every time you look at them you feel at […]

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Can you BUY lasting attraction?

Wouldn't it be great if you could buy all of the love, attraction, and commitment you desired in a bottle or take a pill and everything would be EXACTLY how you want it to be? This seems to be the way of the world, too many superficial lures and not enough heart and soul. There […]

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Get Him To Adore You Again

Does love have to fade? Can't it always be like it was when you two first met? Well, we all know in our hearts that love can never be as powerful and magical as it is when it first starts - BUT... We also know we WANT it to be, don't we? Just to feel […]

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3 Ways To ENTRANCE Him...

Whether you've just met a man for the first time, or you've been with him for months - or even years... ... how do you get him to notice you? SEE you? I mean, wake the heck up and smell what you're cooking! Is that too much to ask? Sometimes, guys are truly clueless. But […]

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Are You Too Clingy...?

When I was in high school, I'd listen to music pretty much 24/7. I'd get up, put on my walkman (hopefully you remember that ancient device), and listen to songs I'd recorded off the radio. A specific "classic rock" hit that I always puzzled over was "Hold On Loosely" by .38 Special. If you don't […]

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Two Words Women HATE

Look, there are two words that most women simply HATE... You know what they are? Star Trek. Those two simple words probably bring to mind instant images of geeky fan boys with pointy ears... Hey, you might be one of those rare women that likes Star Trek, and that's totally cool... But one thing we all […]

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The Absolute Easiest Way To Choose The Right Man - and Avoid The Wrong Ones

7:38 AM - So I'm sitting at Starbucks with Marni, a good friend of mine. She's also in the business of coaching people on how to date and make more powerful connections. After almost scalding my mouth once again with my Chai Latte, we started talking about *attraction.* You know, that delicious electric ZAP you feel […]

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Guys are DOGS...?

I'm sitting in my office, sipping tea, and thinking back to when I first started helping women get closer to the men in their lives... And if there's one question I hear more than most from women I coach, it's this: "Carlos, what is it with guys and sex? Why are guys such dogs?" And […]

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Are You "Crazy"?

A friend of mine sent over a link to an article someone had written recently. It wasn't really meant to be offensive, but the title just made me cringe: "B*tch, Are You Crazy?" It was all about how women are creating situations that don't exist in their heads, based on clues they are over-interpreting. The […]

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Don't Let The Baggage Out?

Imagine you're at the airport.. You just got off your flight and now you're headed to pick up your luggage. The bags start piling out, one by one. You even see other people from your flight getting their bags, which is always reassuring. But after about 15 minutes, they're all done, and no more bags […]

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What Do You Do If He's Jealous?

QUESTION FROM READER: Carlos, I've been dating this guy for about three weeks now. Last week he asked me if I was seeing anyone else. I told him not really, even though I felt like it was a mistake. Well, he called me up later that night and accused me of seeing other guys. After […]

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