The topic of narcissists has come up a lot in the news these days, and especially narcissistic men in relationships. Having a relationship with a narcissist is a frustrating and downright painful experience that you might not recognize at first - especially if your emotions have been manipulated by them. The first and most important […]
If you love a man, you want to know that he's not only in love with you, but that he WANTS you. You've probably found yourself wondering how to make him desire you at some point. Usually, this means that you want him to chase you... It's the most powerful way to feel desired by […]
One of the most common problems a woman runs into within a relationship is emotionally unavailable men. These are guys that just don't seem to BE THERE emotionally like she is. Before we get started on the hot topic of unavailable guys, I have to point out something shocking that you might not know... Women […]
When it comes to finding a man for a relationship - or to marry - most women want to know how to find love in today's dating world. Sometimes it seems like the whole world is completely focused on getting a relationship with someone. Love is hard enough without us getting obsessive about finding a […]
Sometimes it seems like getting a man to be honest with you in your relationship is nearly impossible. And you might find yourself wondering why men lie to you. Are all men liars? Do they lie to hurt women? Is he always going to deceive you? Can you ever trust him? Well, there is no […]
Texting guys can be really confusing. You don't always know what to text him. But before you even send that message - STOP - and ask yourself Should I text him? There are definitely times in dating when you should hold back and NOT send that text, and that's what I want to show you […]
Have you ever had someone you really liked? Have you ever been curious to know how to get a guy to ask you out? Sometimes you meet a guy and you realize he could be a good boyfriend. Sometimes you spot a guy in a bookstore that catches your eye. Maybe it's a guy you've […]
We work very hard to make our relationships work, and the last thing anyone wants is to lose the one they love because the relationship wasn't sturdy enough. And if you've gotten to the point of wondering how to save a marriage, you're probably in a very tough spot with your spouse. You want to […]
It's kind of a cliché, but one of the questions every woman wants to ask is "Is he thinking about me?" And sometimes "What is he THINKING?" Because if you can just get this guy to think good stuff about you, you know you've got him good and HOOKED on you! You know YOU are […]
Sometimes the path of love does not travel straight into his heart... And unfortunately - sometimes you have to know how to get over a guy. Even if it's just to make room for the next guy. I realize it's not the best situation to be in - wondering how to get over your ex. […]
It's one of the trickiest subjects to talk about: Love. And most people are just as confused when they're stuck wondering "How long does it take to fall in love?" This is a big question, and I'm going to give you a pretty definite answer to that question before we're done here. But to even begin […]
When it comes to texting guys, and getting good results, there's probably nothing more important than knowing how to tease a guy with texting. It's the one skill that will have the most powerful affect on a man's heart and his feelings for you. When you pull out your phone and decide you want to […]
Have you ever been dating a guy who keeps you at arm's length? And you wonder: "Why Does He Keep Seeing Me If He Doesn't Want A Relationship?" It's a valid question, for sure. After all, why would he continue to date you if he wasn't interested in making a commitment to you? Well, as […]
I just got an email from a reader who wants to know: Why is he losing interest in me? Read her letter to me, and then we'll dig into the reasons why... QUESTION FROM A READER: Why is he losing interest in me? "Carlos - I've been dating this guy for 2 months, and it's […]
Flirting with a guy is tough enough, but most women want specific tips on how to flirt with a guy texting. Texting a guy adds a whole new layer of complication - but it also simplifies things a lot, too. Think about it: When you text, it's like you get to say anything you want, […]
Women everywhere want their man to think about her - and only her. Sometimes it seems like guys have their attention elsewhere. And that's why I'm going to show you a few tips on how to make him think about you... Because if he's not thinking about you, that space in his thoughts could be […]
There comes a point in almost every relationship where you might find yourself wondering - Is he hiding his feelings or not interested in me? You might wonder if he's sending you mixed signals - and if he's really in love with you at all. There's a lot of confusion about this that I will […]
I'm going to start right out and tell you that this is not going to be like other articles that give you the same "Cosmo" kind of advice about how to grab his attention. You have to get this kind of advice from a MAN. And yes, I'm that man. There are a lot of […]
If you'd like to know how to connect with him emotionally, you might find yourself beyond confused. Men don't have the same emotional connection that you might find you have with your girlfriends, after all. And if you don't understand how to connect with a man using his special needs - you could be walking […]
We're all looking for "The One" that we hope is out there for us. We hope that person is out there - and if the guy you're with is him. And that's what we're going to cover here as I answer that question: Is he the one for you? You might have even found yourself […]
The one way you can be sure you've got a guy under your spell is if you know how to turn him on. And since I'm a guy, I can tell you better than any woman can about what it takes to turn a guy on. Of course, when women ask me "How do I […]