So I got an email the other day that has me in a spin... let me share her letter with you, then we'll dig into the juicy parts, okay? QUESTION FOR CARLOS: Is He Seeing Other Women? Carlos, I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and lately I've been wondering about […]
Right after a wedding/marriage, the most significant event is usually the birth of your first child... But for many, separation or divorce is also an unfortunate event. You went into your marriage fully expecting to be with your guy for the rest of your life. And then something happened that unraveled this union between you. […]
Let's start out by saying that we all are a bit nervous when it comes to a new partner - especially when it comes to the bedroom. After all, we want to not only be attractive to our partner, we want to be competent at making them feel good! And that's something we don't want […]
A lot of women find themselves in the situation of needing to know how to get your ex back. If you've ever been through a breakup, you'll know that often times it's not hard to get them "back" with you. It's usually harder to keep the relationship from breaking up all over again. Why is […]
COUGAR! "Really! Carlos! How dare you use the C-word!" Well, let's call out the elephant in the room and acknowledge that there's a weird stigma attached to women dating a younger man. Yes, there's a double standard here - because when a man does it, we feel that it's more acceptable. Why is this? Part […]
You might find it interesting to know that both women AND men have a natural focus on making their partner happy. It's a very powerful motivation that we all carry. I believe that - deep inside - we all want to make our partners/girlfriends/boyfriends/lovers/wives/husbands happy. It's the proverbial gift that keeps on giving... It raises […]
Have you ever heard this quote? "If you love someone, let them go free... if they don't come back, it was never meant to be." Well, that's sweet and all, and it's a positive message, but it really doesn't help when you can't have the person you want. When you love someone and they don't […]
Attention is a valuable thing... When we're kids, we want attention all the time ... until we don't. Then we get shy. When we're adults, we crave attention - but we also avoid it as much as possible. Probably because we don't want to feel that lack of attention - when the attention is taken away. […]
I got a question from a reader and I want to share it with you. It points out one of the most common situations a woman can find herself in... LETTER FROM A READER... Hi Carlos... Thanks so much for your programs - they've helped me to really understand where men are coming from. Your […]
In my previous article, I pointed out all the signs of a healthy relationship - the kind you want. I also gave you some signals to look out for that you're in a bad romance. In this article, we're going to take a look at the steps to escape a toxic relationship if you think […]
Why do guys act interested and then disappear? This has to be the number one question of all time that I get. Almost every single week someone emails me about the following pattern: She meets a new guy He seems cool, really into her She starts thinking - ooh! This is the ONE! She get […]
When a guy becomes cold, distant, detached, or pulls away from you, it's a scary sensation. It might even remind you of when one or both of your parents were cold and hard to connect with as a kid, which sends our system into all kinds of panic. When someone you really love isn't close […]
I used to go out to dinner with friends a lot. (Though having your own family cuts that time down quite a bit.) Inevitably, I'd get home with my date and we'd start talking trash about the other couples. It's almost guaranteed that they were doing the same about us. But we were doing it […]
What are the signs a married man is in love with you? Well, I’ll be straight up on this one: Because this subject is taboo and it’s not for the faint of heart… It’s when a guy who’s already married starts to show interest in you. It’s when men cheat. But at the same time, […]
Maybe you've heard, and maybe you haven't... but it appears that Taylor Swift has has a stalker for the last 2 years or so. His name is Eric Swarbrick - and he's been threatening some pretty horrific things. Starting with his desire to rape and kill her - and in the same sentence declares himself […]
You know - instinctively - that you don't want to look desperate to a man, right? We know, deep down in our bones, that if you make yourself look desperate to him, you're going to struggle to get him to even talk to you. When you look desperate: You lose your social value... You become […]
Some women are Divas. It's just going to be that way. What's a Diva, you ask? Well some people would classify it by the number of shoes you have.... As in, if you have over 14 pairs of shoes, you might be a Diva. Or you could ask yourself: How often do you check your […]
Sometimes it can be hard to let go of a relationship when it's no longer helping you or healthy for you. Once you fall for someone, it is really difficult to de-tangle your life from that feeling you have for him. Which is why it's all that much more important to choose wisely at the […]
TALKING TRASH ABOUT DATING & RELATIONSHIPS - Episode 3: How to get a guy interested in you, is he cheating on you?, and Asia Argento wants to harass you... Top o' the morning to you! Time to talk some trash about dating and relationships... And just wait til I get to this Asia Argento thing […]
You probably know that the most important part of your relationship - next to your communication - is the level of trust you have with your man. If communication is handing cash back and forth - the transactions - then trust is your bank account balance. Without a nice balance in your account, the trust […]
So you dumped him... Or - he dumped you. It happens in life sometimes. And if there's anything we learn in this land of serial monogamy is that there's always a newer, shinier one around the corner. We change our TV shows as fast as our clothes and our lovers these days... just swipe to […]