Let me ask you something: When another woman walks into a party and your guy looks at her, what do you do?
Do you turn your head, look her from head to toe and make a catty remark about her tacky outfit?
(“I love how her throwback 80s outfit isn’t doing anything for her figure” or “There’s a reason why they’re called ‘skinny jeans’ – maybe she’s trying to be ironic.”)
Or do you act like you didn’t even see her at all?
If you want to show your man you have confidence with a capital “C”, you can’t show weakness by acting threatened by other women.
Guys are can smell insecurity a mile away, so you’re not going to win any points trying to bring down that girl he’s looking at.
Besides, men are always going to look, whether they’re single or not.
(Ok, so maybe ogling is a different thing, which you should call him out on. But otherwise, play it cool.)
Carlos Cavallo, Dating and Attraction Adviser
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But human nature aside, keeping your composure and acting like it’s no big deal is going to make your man want you even MORE.
No matter how tempting it is to make a “funny” remark about another girl’s appearance within his earshot, you’d better save it for your girlfriends instead.
Here’s a thought: let that other girl have her 15 seconds of attention. Once he’s done looking, he’ll be impressed that you weren’t at all fazed by some random stranger.
This might seem like a small thing, but it actually reflects your general attitude and self-assurance. The needy girl would react to another woman’s presence to get his guy to assure him she’s prettier.
But if you don’t acknowledge her existence in the first place? That means you’re plenty confident with what you’ve got.
Above all, you don’t need any guy to remind you of that fact. So when Miss Hoochie Pants walks past your guy, bite your tongue and stay classy.
Cliché as it sounds, external beauty can only go so far in holding a guy’s attention on a long-term basis. Making the ideal relationship happen is about connecting with him in a way that goes beyond looks.
If you want to create that deep, unshakable connection with a guy, I strongly suggest that you check this out: https://2.datingadviceguru.com/sp/report/conncode.php
Yours, in Perfect Passion,
- Carlos Cavallo
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