Welcome to CARLOS' TOP TEN - Irresistible Things Women Do To Capture A Man's Heart.
How a woman carries herself is essential to her success with men.
This should come as no surprise. Especially if you've been around men for longer than 10 years.
One of my favorite self-help authors says that success leaves clues. And if you follow those clues, and you look at what behaviors get results, and you DO those things - you'll probably get the same results.
Well, I'm going to save you some searching today. I'm going to show you the things women do that make them irresistible to men. I'll show you how to capture his heart. I'll show you what men want, and what he doesn't want in a woman...
Some might call this ideal female "Alpha Woman" - but I'd prefer to call her the Irresistible Woman. She's got her act together.
Let's kick it off with:
These days, the media seems to own our perceptions. All you see are ads, ads, everywhere.
And they do little to make you feel good about yourself. In fact, quite the opposite. They're always trying to get you to feel inadequate, so you'll buy some new cream or pill.
Carlos Cavallo, Dating and Attraction Adviser
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Stop second-guessing who you are. You were born adequate, and you'll only get better the more you stay away from the lure of conspicuous consumer habits... this constant consumption.
If you have something you want to work on, do it. But don't live your life looking at your glass being half-empty.
You're enough right now - and you will keep getting better the less you stare at every imaginary defect.
One of my principles is this:
You're better off single than in the wrong relationship.
You might want to check in with yourself on that. Say it aloud and see if you believe it.
Most people believe it INTELLECTUALLY, but their "scared to be alone" side starts to undermine that reality. Don't fall for that inner voice of fear.
You have to believe this, because it is true. And staying in the wrong relationship is only going to damage your sense of self.
When you really do enjoy your time alone, you'll be surprised how many people - how many men - want to join you.
Trying to hide or cover up or change who you are to suit other people...
Trying to keep your imperfections invisible...
These things will make you a neurotic mess.
Now, I'm not saying you should broadcast your flaws to everyone. That's just as weird.
But you can't make the focus of your life being your camouflaging your weaknesses. You can't be authentic to others that way, much less yourself.
Draw a line in the sand, and stick by that woman. Don't stop getting better, by all means. Just make YOU genuine and real to everyone you meet. Even strangers.
This one falls into the category of being okay with being incomplete.
Every single one of us is imperfect. It's our attitude toward that understanding that sets you apart.
We can all compare ourselves to an imaginary perfection, but that does nothing to make you happy.
Be happy now - AND work on your shortcomings along the way.
My friend Jackie went to a car dealership a while back. She saw a hot red sports car she'd always wanted. A few years old, but exactly what she desired.
The secret of all good negotiation is one that few people ever learn: You have to be able to walk away.
This is true for a car you want, or with a street vendor, or... any relationship you will ever have.
You gotta be able to walk if it isn't what you want. It's a more important statement of your self-esteem.
AND your inner character sees it, too...
This means that she's not aggressive in life...
Big difference there.
Aggressive is being pushy to the point of annoyance. Whereas ASSERTIVE is keeping your boundaries intact.
Because once you move away from mommy and daddy, you're on your own, kid.
And even when you find the relationship you want, you're still on your own. You're two separate people who can try to create a special connection, but you'll always be you - one person in charge of her life.
Unfortunately, the assertive woman is being morphed into something completely wrong these days.
She's being told she needs to act like... a man.
The feminine and masculine are a sacred part of our relationships. And you can't create a loving and fulfilling relationship without knowing how incredibly strong femininity can be.
If there's one thing that will hold you back in every part of your life, it's playing the role of the victim.
Sometimes that's by failing to assert yourself. Sometimes that's when you point the finger of blame at everyone else but the person who is really in control of your life - which is YOU.
Stop re-living that imaginary negative life you have running around in your head - like film footage of a future you don't want.
YOU control your feelings and emotions, contrary to what the gurus out there say. Moods may come and go, but you choose your reaction to life. It's not automatic.
Look, as a man, I can tell you that acting like you stopped maturing at the age of 22 is NOT attractive. You have to offer up more to keep a man's interest these days.
You've got Japanese sex robots, Internet addictions, video games, etc. (No, I'm not kidding about the Japanese sex robots, by the way. I wish I were.)
A man wants a woman, but she's gotta level-up...
And NO, not in one of those feel-good-book-into-movie products you see on the bookstore shelves. (It's marketing more than it is enriching fiction...)
No woo-woo nonsense here.
A man looks at a woman and sees past the makeup, the fake boobies, the agonizing high-heels and fashion statements...
He looks to see if he can see a living, thinking, growing person in there. Not just someone that's gussied up to draw his eye.
(BTW: There will always be men who choose only the superficial aspects of women, but they're really not your concern, are they? That's not the guy you want, so don't mourn his lack of interest.)
We will notice.
And hopefully, so will you.
When you realize that YOU are your most vital asset - your most valuable possession - you'll realize that skating by on free articles from Cosmo or the Internet are never going to get you where you want to be in life. Nor will they get you the man and the relationship you desire.
There are THREE reasons for this:
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