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Carlos Cavallo
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The 7 Mistakes Women Make That Make Men Pull Away...
Do you ever feel like giving up on men and relationships? Every woman does now and then.
But before you lose hope - take a breath and stay with me a second...
Relationships might seem difficult at first, but they're much easier than you might think. IF you understand men. If you want a successful relationship or marriage, you simply have to know what he REALLY wants.
The most important thing to do is to learn how MEN work!
Here are a few tips for women to help your dating and relationships…
It can be tempting to just coast in a relationship, but relationships require some thought. If you try to put things on autopilot, you’ll find out (too late) that he will grow distant - and eventually you'll split up.
Sure, it might be a little effort, but is there anything MORE rewarding than nurturing your love?
If you’re chasing men - trying to get them interested in you and approving of you - you’re probably scaring him away.
Men are hunters, by nature. We need to have that satisfaction of pursuing and winning your love.
Unfortunately, most women make themselves way too easy for him. Or - worse - they fall for the popular idea that it’s okay for women to switch roles - to approach him and ask HIM out. This is the worst thing you can do!
First of all, if you put all the work in to get him interested, how do you know he’s really into you? How do you know he didn’t just go along because he had no one else?
Second, if you chase him up front, he’ll never feel the thrill of wondering if you’re into him. And he’ll usually just take you for granted.
You need a man to show you interest! You want him to let you know YOU are desirable ...
Men are attracted to women that know how to treat themselves right. These are the women that look good - and FEEL good about themselves.
Guys are attracted to women who are more “girly-girl” than “manly man” - for obvious reasons. The women who know how to demonstrate their feminine value can attract almost any man.
It can be really hard talking about emotional issues with men, as you know.
The women who tend to lose their men are the ones that try to avoid talking about the “tough stuff.”
When you’ve got an emotional wall between you, you have to know what to say to him to open him up. If you talk to him like a girlfriend, you’ll lose him. You need to know what words to use with men and how to keep his attention.
No, I’m not talking about the bill. (Guys should pay for the date, by the way.)
When I say you should split it two ways, I’m talking about the WORK in your relationship. You need to split up the romance, the chores, and everything 50/50. Otherwise, he will grow complacent and lazy, and you'll wind up resentful.
Make sure you talk through your expectations in the relationship. If you don’t, you’re very likely to run into more misunderstandings, arguments, and conflict.
Most men feel like they are not heard within their relationships. They don’t believe that their partner really understands what’s going on in his head and heart.
And most women would say it's his fault - that HE is the one who hides his feelings.
SECRET: Keep in mind that women listen to CONNECT, while men listen to solve problems.
The truth is that men open up to women that they trust and respect. Do you know what signs he’s looking for to trust you and respect you?
The relationships that fail are when the couple get into blame contests - each of them trying to “WIN” the argument.
NEWS FLASH: Even if you think you “won” a relationship argument, you didn’t. Because the person who “lost” is now hurt and isolated. And it gets harder and harder for him to come back to you!
Avoid treating your man as an adversary. He’s your partner and co-pilot, and he wants to know you will work on the same team.
The first thing to go in any relationship is usually the good vibe between you and him. Make sure that you keep your sense of humor with your communication at all times. Men will marry you when he knows how much FUN he has with you.
Laugh with him and you’ll create an unbreakable connection - and he’ll adore you forever.
It’s easy to forget how much the small stuff doesn’t really matter when you’re in a relationship. Most of the things we end up fighting over don’t really matter! Instead of letting these small problems overwhelm you, keep them in perspective.
You deserve to be treated with respect by him at all times. And he deserves the same from you!
Respect in your relationship is vital for it to survive. Respect shows up in how you talk to each other, how you treat each other, and even how you think about each other.
It's easy to start being too serious with your relationship. And when you become TOO serious, the relationship loses its fun - and he will start to grow more cold and distant.
That's another reason why you must keep your sense of humor with you at all times.
If you take your relationship too seriously - as if your life depends on it - your man will sense this and run away.
Stay calm and have fun…!
You may not realize this but every guy in a relationship has a "speed limit." This speed limit is how fast he's willing to commit to you and your love. But what most women don't realize is that she is probably already speeding!
For a guy to really give you his heart requires you to know exactly how fast you can go with him. Some guys can go quick to commitment, other guys need slower.
Do you know how fast you can go?
If you’ve ever read any dating or relationship advice and thought: “Yeah, but what about HIM? Why doesn’t HE have to change/learn/improve/etc. ? Why is it always up to ME?” You might be tempted to wonder why do YOU have to do all the work, right?
The truth is, we BOTH have our part. And as the saying goes, know when it’s wiser to help YOU first.
When you realize that YOU are the one that controls your actions - you'll have an incredible amount of power to get the man you desire.
If you wait around, complaining about the guys who won’t change for you, you’ll miss out on The One.
One of the fastest ways to fix your relationship - or even win back your ex - is to simply STOP making all the common mistakes with men.
Many women don’t know that there are some simple mistakes (7 mistakes, in fact) that can be avoided to save your relationship ... or your marriage! It’s not your fault you made them, but now you can avoid making these mistakes ever again!
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This is a scary truth that you might not know about. This time limit on relationships is real, and it’s a problem that many women face.
Most women have a difficult time getting past 3-4 months in their relationships. There seems to be a time limit - a wall - where they can’t make their love relationship serious - or turn into a marriage commitment.
The reason for this is simply because most women do not really understand how men think - or how to keep him happy. Because if your man is happy, he will do ANYTHING to make sure you are happy!
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Carlos Cavallo
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The 7 Mistakes Women Make That Make Men Pull Away...
