There are things women do that drive men crazy, and I want to make sure you avoid them.
Yes, I know you love your man.
You want to keep him with you… forever.
But, you might be doing things that irritate him, or push him away.
You can avoid that, by knowing these 10 things that drive men crazy.
Crazy things women do #1: Always asking him what he’s thinking
It is always a surprise to your man when out of the blue you ask him what he is thinking. One minute you guys are having a relaxing evening and then you hurl questions at him when he least expects it.
Always asking him what he is thinking will annoy him and he will eventually shut you out.
Drive Him Crazy #2: You say, “I’m fine” when you're really not.
You were so angry at something and when he asks, “Are you okay?” - you say you are fine. And when he goes about his business, you get even more mad.
That is confusing for him. And you gotta admit, it's a little crazy.
Men are simple. He will take whatever you say at face value. So be direct. No taking the long way around. He will appreciate you more than hiding what you really want to say.
You're driving him nuts #3: Being WAY overly emotional
It's okay to feel emotions. It's okay to cry.
But, all the time? At every movie?
That is just awkward for him because he doesn't know what to do.
Try toning your emotions down a little around him. Make him feel happy with you and not avoid you because you're an emotional roller coaster.
Stop making him crazy #4: Non-stop talking.
Your guy might be entertained with all your elaborate and detailed stories. But, make sure you are direct. Get straight to the point of your story and then end it.
Don’t go round and round with the same story that should take 10 minutes to finish but took you 6 hours!
It isn’t fair to your guy.
And by listening to him, you get to know him.
Just don’t just keep talking. Let him talk too.
Don't drive your man insane #5: Using sex as a weapon
C’mon, using your man’s basic needs to get what you want really isn’t fair. And it creates resentment.
Look, you want to keep him with you right? If yes, then don’t give him a reason to look for someone else who can provide something that you deprive him of.
Crazy things women do #6: Too much makeup.
Contrary to what most women believe, men don’t like women who have a lot of make up on her face and who looks almost like a clown.
You want him to see you as beautiful, right? Then, be natural.
Wear makeup that accentuates you and not the opposite.
The rule of makeup stands: You should wear it - but in a way that he can't tell you're wearing it.
Crazy things women do #7: Talking about your Ex.
NEVER compare your guy to your ex.
They are NOT the same.
Don’t talk about your past relationships unless you are in a very comfortable state with your guy.
Talking about your past, how it ended, how your ex was a jerk will only make your man think maybe there’s something wrong with you.
Crazy things women do #8: Virtual stalking
It won’t look good to your guy if you're consistently eyeing his Facebook, twitter and other social media sites. That will only make him feel weird about you. He'll think that you're an insecure woman - and a natural stalker.
Let him miss you. Give him his space. He WILL appreciate you for it.
Crazy things women do #9: Bring in the Girl friends all the time.
When you’re with your guy, YOU ARE WITH YOUR GUY.
Not with your girl friends. Your friends need not know what goes on between the two of you. Have a little bit of privacy.
And besides, your single girl friends will probably only give you negative advice based from their own messed up relationships. Just concentrate on you and your man.
Be happy... and enjoy that all on its own.
Crazy things women do #10: Senseless questions
Questions like “What dress to wear?” “Am I pretty” ” “Do I look fat?” are best asked when you are with your girl friends and not with your man.
This can be really tasking for him. Don’t make him feel awkward, what does he know anyway?
So let him be.
Ask your girl friends. They're in a better position to give you fitness or fashion advice.
And remember that if you're fishing for compliments, you want to be more direct with him so that he knows what to say.
If you avoid these 10 mistakes women make with guys, you'll keep him - AND YOU - sane...
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