Get Him To Adore You Again

By: Carlos Cavallo
 |

Does love have to fade?

Can't it always be like it was when you two first met?

Well, we all know in our hearts that love can never be as powerful and magical as it is when it first starts - BUT...

We also know we WANT it to be, don't we?

Just to feel that inexorable pull of chemistry and attraction that makes the world a whirlwind of excitment.

Where all the colors are brighter, and the smells so much sweeter...

Sure, some people may accuse you wanting a fairy tale romance. They shake their head and tell you it's a dream, and you need to "get real..."

But that's okay.

There is no reason you can't have some of that romantic fantasy become REAL for you.

I want to share with you 3 ways you can get your man to adore you.

But beware! If you use these "spells" with men, don't be surprised if he becomes truly enchanted with you.

adre you 2 Get Him To Adore You Again

How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 1:  Let him catch you...

Look, I won't insult your intelligence by telling you for the umpteenth time that men like sex.

(Okay, they LOVE it - and everything about it.)

But the truth is that YOU do, too! Just in a slightly different recipe. As in, not as fast...

Sometimes in the relationship, his mojo level drops - and he doesn't seem as into sex. The roles seem to reverse a bit.

And that leaves you feeling unattractive. Undesirable.

BUT there's something here you can use to your advantage...

I propose that you let him catch you.

You know - doing IT.

Pleasuring yourself.

C'mon - as the old joke goes: 80% of women masturbate...

And the other 20% are lying.

Just let him walk in on you sometime... or maybe invite him just to watch.

If you're shy, you can just tell him that when he revs the engine in his car, you feel the vibrations and get a delicious jolt of "mmmm." Squirm and smile to make the point...

You see, flashing this kind of sexual side to yourself is something that most men never get to see. Seriously, most men don't really think women enjoy sex all that much - because of the difference between how men and women prioritize and handle it.

It's old, lame programming that most men still fall for.

You'd be astonished at the kind of wide-eyed fascination this will create in him.

Which leads me to the next tip...

How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 2: Keep Things Light And Fun

Here's a tricky one...

You see, men bond by sharing time with someone.

NOT by talking.

NOT by sharing emotions and experiences verbally.

Which - by the way - is completely opposite to how most women bond with each other - through communicating.

The one thing that will sneak under a man's radar is having a woman around that FEELS like she's a buddy of his. (With a sexual edge, of course.)

adre you 1 1024x626 Get Him To Adore You Again

So the more you can just hang out with him - and his friends, if that's every so often - and spend time with him, the more likely he is to turn around one day and figure "Hey, she's my girlfriend."

By the way, I explain how this works and how to make this happen in my "Forever Yours - The Secret Password To His Heart" program, by the way.

Because he wants your relationship to HAPPEN to him without having to plan it out or make sure it's "going somewhere." Or declaring it - until AFTER the fact.

That doesn't mean you can't get the satisfaction of verbal communication or commitment from him. What it means is that the more you keep the experience of being around you light and fun, the more he will naturally WANT to be around you. And that creates the bond that will lock him to you.

Unfortunately, when women feel anxious about their attachment and commitment to a man, they tend to do the opposite. Things get "heavy" and oppressive to him, and he pulls away to escape that feeling.

So always remember: Light and Fun!

And the best way you can do that is to use Tip #3...

How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 3: Give him an ULTIMATE Date...

Guys want a lot of the things women do, funny enough. One of those things we like is to be swept off our feet.

Sounds kindy wussy and weird, huh?

Well, it's slightly different for guys than the way you do, but it's close. And it comes from a man's perspective and needs.

Allow me to explain:

Men invest a lot of emotional and intellectual energy up front to get your attention and interest. We have to overcome that great Fear of Rejection in order to start a conversation with you.

Then we have to setup dates, and *hope* you like what we've done for you.

And pray that you are actually going to be sexually attracted to us and not condemn us to the "Friends Only" category.

Sometimes it feels to him that he's putting out unbelievable amounts of effort based on the slight chance you could be interested in him. That's why it can come as a blessed relief when YOU plan a date for us.

First off, it shows your interest level - that you're into him. Which is something a man is desperate to catch a glimpse of in the early stages. And he hopes to see it later on in the relationship as well. It's very reassuring to know that you will step up and show some effort right there with him.

Second, it just lets us catch our breath and rest for a moment or two before continuing our pursuit.

So plan a night out with just the two of you that makes him feel valued and respected. And appreciated.

By the way - I explain the complete plan for this Ultimate Date in detail in my free report: "Confessions of a Former Commitment-Phobe" - where I lay out the roadmap for a night you - and he - will never forget.

Go grab it HERE - and get started on making him adore you forever...

Yours in Perfect Passion...

- Carlos Cavallo
http://www.passwordtohisheart.com

Carlos Cavallo's Dating Advice Guru Relationship Tips For Women
Carlos Cavallo - Dating Advice For Women

Carlos Cavallo Dating and Relationship Guru

FREE Report!

The 7 Mistakes Women Make That Make Men Pull Away...

  • The REAL Reason Men Run From Relationships...
  • How To Know If He's Still Interested In You...
  • Is He Afraid To Commit? Find out...
MORE
  • Take The Quiz!
  • Listen to Carlos podcast

  • Carlos Cavallo's Relationship Tips

    Dating & Relationship Advice Published By:

    Morpheus Productions, LLC
    1115 Madison St NE #1047
    Salem, OR 97301

    1-888-414-0780

  • MORE
  • Take The Quiz!
  • Listen to Carlos podcast

  • Carlos Cavallo's Relationship Tips

    Dating & Relationship Advice Published By:

    Morpheus Productions, LLC
    1115 Madison St NE #1047
    Salem, OR 97301

    1-888-414-0780

  • More Articles

    Unhappy In a Relationship - How To Fix It

    When you're unhappy in a relationship it's one of the most difficult situations. When you've got relationship problems, everything else just seems to fade into the background. You wish you had a Magic Pill that would turn your unhappy relationship into a healthy relationship. Whatever the state of your current relationship is, you can fix […]

    Read More
    How To Get Over Someone You Love

    According to relationship experts, the best way to get over someone is to just "get over them." Which is actually the worst advice ever for how to get over someone. Breaking up hurts. But it doesn't need to be constant suffering. If you want to know how to get through a breakup, that's what I'm […]

    Read More
    How To Get His Attention Back Fast - Without Looking Desperate!

    You can be in a real panic when a guy stops paying attention to you or ignores you. When you feel him slipping away, all you can think about is how to get his attention back fast - and without looking desperate. If you sense he has lost enthusiasm for you, you don't want to […]

    Read More
    How To Get The Spark Back In A Relationship - 8 Must-Read Tips

    Every relationship is awesome at the beginning. But it's also perfectly natural to have slow periods in your relationship. You may be wondering right now how to get the spark back in your relationship. Falling in love is easy when the feelings of passion and desire run high. Staying in love is a little trickier. […]

    Read More
    "My Boyfriend Won't Make Time For Me!" - 9 Tips To Be His Priority

    If you've ever been in a relationship where you want to get the attention you deserve, you might have found yourself feeling neglected and unwanted. You may have even told your friends "My boyfriend won't make time for me! What the heck should I do?" Let's tackle this tricky situation and give you the tips […]

    Read More
    How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work - 20 Secrets To Success

    A long-distance relationship can be one of the most challenging situations for dating. If you want to know how to make a long distance relationship work you gotta know what most women don't know! There are a lot of barriers to keeping a long distance relationship healthy. A lot of people don't believe that long-distance […]

    Read More
    Is He Just A Friend - Or Is He Interested In You? - 16 Tips!

    If you've ever been in love with a guy and wondered: Is he just a friend or is he interested? - you're not alone. When a man and a woman hang out, even if they're only friends, there's always going to be a little bit of sexual tension. Many studies have shown that the number […]

    Read More
    Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know

    One of the most controversial parts of dating and relationships is the age of your partner. Is it okay to date someone younger, older? If you're dating a younger man, you better know what to do. We often think about older women dating younger men as “cougars.”  But that label is just not fair. You […]

    Read More
    Will a Man Change For The Right Woman? Will He Change For YOU?

    One of the most common Romance novel plots is the rich, womanizing playboy that finds an amazing woman, realizes the error of his ways, and settles down to be tamed by this amazing woman. But is this realistic? Will a man change for the right woman? Well, we all change over the course of our […]

    Read More
    When To Date Exclusively - When does a relationship become exclusive?

    One of the most important milestones in a relationship is when you become exclusive. It's also one of the most anxious times for women because she's waiting for weeks or even months to figure out “Where is this going?"  So let's talk about exclusive relationships, and when does a relationship become exclusive? In many surveys, […]

    Read More

    WHY HE STOPPED LOVING YOU...

    FREE EBOOK & VIDEO Shows you why you're not his priority anymore

    - The REAL Reasons Men Disappear

    - How To Know If He's Still Interested

    - Is He Afraid To Commit? Find out!

    Your Book is on the way... Check your email now!

    linkedin facebook pinterest youtube rss twitter instagram facebook-blank rss-blank linkedin-blank pinterest youtube twitter instagram