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7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You

By: Carlos Cavallo
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There isn't a woman OR man alive that doesn't want the hidden playbook of the opposite sex. We all want the hidden signs to tell us what the other person is thinking. I've got some unusual signs your man is into you...

Wouldn't you just love to know:

  • What he's thinking of you right now?
  • How does he feel about you?
  • What does he want you to do next?
  • Is he THE ONE?
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Do you have a plan?

I bet you would love to know...

We all want to just KNOW how the other person thinks and feels about us.

And that's why I'm going to give you these 7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You...

#7 Sign He's Into You: His Friends Know About You

Guys are actually pretty quick to talk about that special girl they really like. If that's you, then he's going to talk to them about you.

Because when a guy is into you, he's going to pull you into all areas of his life.

Conversely, if he's not introducing you to his family and friends, that means he's still got some doubts about you being The One.

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Get into his circle of friends...

The best thing you can do is to watch for this signal - and then get to know his friends along the way. That's the most flattering and appreciative thing you can do for him.

And he will notice - and pull you deeper into his life the more you put effort into his friends...

#6 Signal That He Wants You: You've Got His Attention

We're in the new age of blue screens everywhere, and ADHD becoming the most common way to describe a person. (I have at least a half-dozen people in my life that think that being ADHD is 'cool' in some way...)

When you have his attention, you'll also have an expressway into his heart...

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All the ways his heart can be pulled...

When you have a guy's attention, he will:

  • Listen to you intently - He will actually pay attention to your words. He might even (gasp) bring something up you said from a previous conversation. He will ask questions, seek out your opinion, and respond to you...
  • Maintain eye contact - Yeah, I know - a guy's eyes can wonder from time to time. (If you want to know why he looks at other women, there's a reason, and it's not what you think. It has nothing to do with 'respect.') But men will make it a point to focus on YOU when they are interested in you...
  • Lean in - His body language will leave no room for error. He'll want to get closer to you. He'll also turn his body to face you directly, which will tell you you've got his complete attention...

#5 Sign He's Hot For You: Can't Keep His Hands Off You

I'm sure you've known a woman who the guys all seem to paw at like a bunch of kittens at a catnip festival. I think the official term is "handsy." Heck, maybe you experienced this once or twice?

(And as of this writing, famous men everywhere are getting outed in the media for their - cough - "overly affectionate nature.")

But there IS a reason a guy does this - and it's because men are very tactile when it comes to beauty. We see it and we want to touch it. It's very hard for a guy to resist.

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How "physical" is he?

I mean, when you use all that product to make your hair, skin, lips - every inch of you so soft, how can we resist that urge? It's tempting.

And no, that's not a justification for creepy pawing, just a simple stated fact.

Most guys show their physical affection very respectfully. He’ll routinely touch your arm when he’s talking, touch your back, and he'll hold your hand when the time is right. These PDAs (public displays of affection) show respect, affection, and desire.

#4 Sign He Likes You: He calls and texts - FIRST!

This one will probably top your list of "Oh, man - I WISH!" 

Am-I-Right?

Most women have come to experience the awesome power of deafening silence when they text a guy. And that right there is the problem.

You see, a guy can sense in a heartbeat when a woman is testing him. We've gotten used to this "vibe."

It all started when we were buying drinks in bars for women, and we got sh*t-tested at every chance in the conversation.  You might not have noticed you were doing this, but we felt it. In every cell of our body.

This "test" is when you're giving us a hard time and testing our masculinity by exhibiting ... ahem... bratty girl behavior to see how we'd react. This is part of that natural dance of attraction that is completely normal in flirty encounters.

So guys know when you're up to your old tricks.

Oh, I know, you're yelling at the screen right now -

"Carlos! I'd never treat a man like that!"

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The texting dilemma - and the testing!

You did. And that's okay, because it was expected back then.

But now that we're all older, the testing needs to stop. It's more about open communication and avoiding those "games."

So when you text us in a way that SEEMS to want a response a bit too much, we feel pressured. Then we feel anxious about it, because we probably like you, but now we're a bit confused. Why all the expectation? Are you being needy?

Yep. This is how guys think, ladies.

So when you get a text from a man - unexpectedly - your eyes light up, and you feel that deliciously fun feeling in your tummy that tells you he's into you. And you should - because that is definitely a sign he digs you.

The way to get him to text you more often is to text him just a little LESS than he wants.

The more a guy wonders where he stands with you, the better off you are.

#3 Sign He Wants You: He Adjusts His Life & Habits

Guys are just as guilty as gals of being a little too set in our ways. But when a guy meets a woman that is worthwhile to him, he will make some changes. He will adjust his life to pull you closer...

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Spending time with you and pulling you closer...

He will:

  • Adjust his schedule to accommodate
  • Change some of his routines
  • Make some adjustments to make you happy

Guys will make the space for you if they feel you're worth having.

#2 Indication He Likes You: He Talks About What You Have In Common

One of the more indirect ways that a guy will show you he likes you is to talk about things that you have in common.

Now, many women miss this signal because they're listening for him to describe some specific things ABOUT HER that he likes. However, some guys don't do this right away.

Instead, we might talk a bit more indirectly about how you fit in to our lives. Because, ultimately, we men are thinking about how the relationship would work if we were to marry you.

This is an important distinction - because we've got the big picture in mind.

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Do you have deep, meaningful conversations?

So if you're hoping for him to tell you how much he loves your hair, your beauty, your wardrobe... whatever...

He might already be telling you he really digs you with all the stuff he's seeing that you have in common. Because, ultimately, that's the part that will make you a successful couple - how you weave together into the fabric of a solid couple. (Not just admiring you like a sculpture he bought at a garage sale. Pardon my crude analogy.)

#1 Sign He Likes You: He Keeps Coming Back For More...

Guys range from the obnoxiously and douchey confident, all the way to the terminally shy.

And when a guy likes a girl, there is only one thing we want to do - and that's be around her.

Near her...

Or just within sight of her...

The problem is that the douchebag, arrogant guys are typically the ones that approach you first. These are the guys that have the balls to come over and do the unthinkable: Start a conversation.

It's the nice, quiet, shy guy who's over there in the corner, nursing his one beer for the evening, trying to come up with just the right combination of words to win your heart... and avoid rejection.

And usually winds up chickening out and going home early.

So you have to understand that:

A man's greatest contribution to your almost-romance is simply to keep asking you out and keep coming back for more.

He will call if he’s really into you, and he will also make an effort to see you regularly.

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Imagine him spending time with you - adoring you...

And it’s not just about having a date on Saturday night. When a guy REALLY likes you, he wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you do together. So if your guy invites you to hang out and watch movies at his place, get a quick coffee after work, or meet at the Laundromat on Sunday afternoon, it's almost definite that he’s into you.

Men bond by simply SPENDING TIME with others.

And that's the way men often fall in love with you without you realizing it. I've overheard women complaining about guys who didn't take them out every night as being 'cheap' and 'thoughtless,' not realizing they were pushing away a guy that was actually falling for them.

Your Soulmate could be in your life right now - and you might have missed him if you weren't looking for the right signs. 

If you want to learn more secrets about men - and discover who your soulmate might be - or find out if the soulmate you've got is going to stay with you, I've got something special for you...

Go find out what he thinks about you - and if you're The One - CLICK HERE

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