How do you make him SEE YOU? Notice you, and want YOU - and not that other woman?
How do you make him realize and decide that you are his Miss Right?
Here are 3 quick tips to help you…
Get Mr. Right To Hit On You – Tip #1: Give him no choice but to notice you.
When you see him again, try to sit near him and catch his eye. Make it subtle.
When you see that his eyes wandered to you…give him a quick, genuine smile. That's the hook a guy needs to make a move.
Then do whatever you can do like reading a book, work on your laptop…anything that’ll make him see you have a purpose being there and not just to stalk him.
When he comes over, have a small talk. Just remember the basic questions – what, where, when, why and how. That should keep your conversation going.
Remember, his #1 priority is to AVOID REJECTION. If you can make it clear that this won't happen, he'll come over and chat you up.
Be engaging and exude positivity! Remember, your goal here is for him to feel good about you.
So, the next time he sees you…he’ll always approach and talk to you.
How To Get Him To Hit On You – Tip #2: Get him to ask you out.
Everytime you’re together, make sure YOU work your body and YOU flirt with him in words. Make every meeting an opportunity to do these two things.
Work your body – always maintain eye contact, play with your hair, lean towards him and make sure you’re open to communication.
This just means flirting by way of body language.
Flirt in words – just be subtle when you flirt with him. You don’t want to come off too strong.
You can compliment him from time to time, touch him on the arm or hand occasionally - and playfully tease him.
Just have a fun and positive encounter. In time, he’ll ask you out.
Get Mr. Right – Tip #3: Take it slower than you want to.
So, you had your first date, and you’re eager to jump to the next date... and the NEXT one. You want to speed up the process so you can have him…
You’re starting to think of things to give him, activities you can do together and what flowers to choose for your wedding.
STOP! (Sound of record needle scratching back and forth.)
Remember, even if you suspect he’s your 'Mr. Right' - he doesn’t know yet that you’re HIS "Miss Right." So you need to take things slow.
Let everything unfold in its own time.
The longer you make it take, without discouraging him, the deeper in love he will fall with you. It's a simple rule of courtship that has never changed. (And honestly, probably never will.)
And remember to obey the first rule of showbiz - always leave him wanting more.
Never be the nagging, clingy and emotional person. That creates the complete opposite effect - leaving him dreading the thought of you.
Let him see all the good things that you are.
Have fun. Make him feel great.
Your goal is to associate YOU with everything that's fun and cool so wherever he is or whoever he may be with, he’ll always feel the need to be with you.
It’s never easy to find Mr. Right, let alone make him want to be with you forever.
But simply by keeping your eyes on the prize, don't get distracted with irrelevant stuff along the way, and keeping a positive attitude (highly under-rated, by the way), you'll have no problem hooking his interest and desire for you.
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