Yes, even after he's done reading it, your dirty texts for him should stick in his mind - along with his thoughts of you. You want him fascinated and obsessed for as long as possible when you're not around.
Yeah, it's actually an important thing to get a reply text from a guy. It shows you've managed to bend him to your will - at least a little bit. And you've started up his curiosity. Because if he isn't replying to you... what is he up to?
- A good dirty text for him should make him a little turned on...
Let's face it - a man's sex drive is the expressway to his heart. Knowing dirty texts for him and how to text him into a little arousal is a good way to light the fires of passion with him.
Dirty texts for him are the perfect way to do this.
You don't want to seem slutty or desperate. But you know you need to make a mark on him - before some other woman comes along who knows how to spark his desire.
I'm going to share 7 dirty texts for him with you -
and these aren't the ones that you read about in fluffy fashion magazines, either.
I want to give you messages that will really have an impact on him - and an emotional impact.
I want to caution you to not use the texts you see in articles on other sites. Many of them were created by writers with no experience in coaching women to success in their relationships.
Let's start with a few tips on how to dirty text men...
Dirty texts for him tip #1: Don't go overboard
You don't want to send him too many naughty texts at once. You'll lose your impact on him and risk boring him.
What usually happens is that a woman will send something a little dirty in a text, and she gets a response from him.
She assumes that she's got him hooked, so she keeps going with the same texting thread, only to eventually bore him.
You have to make any dirty texts feel like it's GOING somewhere with him. This is a critical difference in the text messages that work versus the ones that fail with guys - and almost no women know about it.
If you send dirty texts to a guy and then keep that pattern without it leading to the hope of meeting up with you, it will feel like he's being teased. And you don't want him thinking of you as a tease.
I"ll give you a great way to do this in just a minute...
Dirty texts for him tip #2: Don't go TOO dirty...
Some women think that because men have such sexually driven minds, that we must really like raunchy talk.
There's really only one place where we enjoy that - and it's in the bedroom. And it's not nearly as dirty as you might think.
Texting is different, so you want to use the right words to get him excited.
Men respond to certain words more intensely than others. And these words are not the ones that women normally use, which is why so many women scare men off with their texts instead of draw him in closer.
Naughty texts for him tip #3: Get him curious, but don't give away the ending...
Look, human beings love to be teased. But there's no fun if you don't leave stuff to his imagination.
One of the mistakes I've seen is when the dirty text message conversation gets carried away, and it crosses over into X-rated talk.
Guys might SEEM like they want this - but they don't want this. As crude as men seem, we like some things being held back to our imagination.
And we don't necessarily want to hear you using filthy talk to explain it to us.
Yes, this even goes for naughty pictures, too. Which leads us to this last tip:
Dirty Text Messages for Him Tip #4: Nothing naked.
Some guys really like the thought of getting a woman to send a nude selfie.
Some are blunt: "Hey send me pic of your boobs..."
Others not so blunt: "Whatcha wearing?"
Which is leading toward an eventual: "Send me a pic..."
Either way, the goal is the same. We want to see some skin.
It's not that we're foul, lusting creatures of perversion...
We just can't help it - we men are visual creatures, and we'd really like to get a gander at "the goods."
But you can't let yourself get carried away. The more approval he seems to give you, the more tempting it is to start sexting wild images.
Don't go there.
Keep it to his imagination. Nothing naked should happen on your cell phone.
It's too risky, and no matter what you might think from his cajoling and begging, he'll be much happier if the payoff is left in his imagination for now.
And yes, even if he sends you a dick pic, don't go there.
So now let's jump into some quick text messages you can use to dirty text him...
#1. Dirty Text For Him - The Fascinator
Remember how I told you that you need to text him into curiosity?
One of the best strategies to get a man thinking about you all day long, is to send something like this first thing in the morning:
TEXT: "I had the weirdest dream about you last night..."
Of course he's going to want to know what it was about, and if it was sexual.
Whatever he texts you back, you simply say:
"I'll give you the details when we get together again..."
BOOM! Fascination has been installed, and he will now be thinking about you all week.
You only need to plant the suggestion now and again to get him fantasizing about you.
#2. Sexy Text For Him - The Teaser
Every so often, a well placed tease text is fine to start some "naughty talk." The key is to give him something fun and funny, without being too mean about the "just kidding" part.
Example: "My hands are down THERE right now..."
Of course, he'll send something back to this. He won't be able to resist...
HIM: "Oh, really? Tell me more..."
Then you - nicely - bust his bubble with this reply: "In the bottom of my closet, rearranging all my shoes... this is work! ;)"
Just remember to not carry it too far before you let him in on the joke. And you might send him a consolation prize text...
#3. Naughty Text For Him - The Consolation Prize
If you do tease him a bit, or if you just want to end the conversation on a sexy message, send this: "Mmmm... Don't worry. You'll get yours..."
You haven't said what "yours" is, and that's fine. You've just reassured him that he's not going to be left hanging forever.
He won't be eternally teased. And that's important.
Of course this will leave him deliciously tempted, and wondering what "his" will be - and when he gets it.
#4. Dirty Text For Him - The Neighbors
Sometimes the best way to bridge into a naughty text conversation is to use fictional neighbors.
Try this one: "Hey, my neighbors are at it again... must be newlyweds..."
Again, bringing up sex indirectly is the best way to do it in text, since you want to make sure you don't carry it too far.
#5. Dirty Texts For Him - The Too Bad
You can use this one opening with a bunch of add-ons. The way it works is you just start out your message with: "Too bad..."
Example: "Too bad you're not here right now..."
Now, the way this works in a guy is that it makes us feel almost challenged on a certain level. Like it's something we could change. And we'll start throwing out ways of overcoming the obstacle of "Too bad."
He might respond with: "Well, I could be over there in about 20 minutes..."
Or: "You could come over for a late night tuck in..."
The cool part is that this opening on your texts gives you a lot of room to challenge him. It's a bit like the princess laying out the quest for the knight to overcome.
And it works like crazy!
#6. Dirty Text Message For Him - The Hot Shower
This one is...steamy. (Pun intended.)
You send him this: "Wow... just took a shower... that was so hot I couldn't stop myself..."
Again, you're teasing at what *might* have happened in that shower.
And he'll take the ball from there and run with it.
He'll be guessing what it was you couldn't stop yourself from doing.
Just play up the details of your self-cleansing session... how you applied the soap... where you had to lather up...
Geez, I'm getting excited just writing this, so I'm sure it's going to work on him.
Use This Naughty Text Message 7 - The Girl Kiss
This one is SUPER naughty, so use it with care, because it will drive him insane.
I call it the Girl Kiss:
"Hey, would you be mad if I kissed a girl?"
Now, whether or not you have done this, it doesn't matter. Yes, guys go crazy with desire when they think there's this chance of girl-on-girl action.
It can just be in our imagination, but it's enough to get him hot and bothered for days.
You can always follow up later with: "Not that I have... I was just wondering if you'd be jealous of losing me..."
This one is a real firestarter, so use with caution.
There you go - 7 dirty texts for him - but not so raunchy - that you can use.
These work so well because they use the most powerful sexual stimulant: Imagination.
Guys don't need the vivid details, or the heavy swearing - or even the x-rated stuff to get us excited.
Just let us know you're THINKING about sex and you're willing to play with it, and that's enough to get almost any man turned on and fantasizing about you.
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