Dirty text messages are a great way to get a guy's attention, as you probably know. In fact, I've got 7 dirty good text messages that you'll want to use on him right in this article...
But your faithful author here isn't going to just hand you words and tell you to blindly send them out to all the guys you know. That would actually be very irresponsible of me - or anyone, really.
I see a lot of sites that promise if you'll "send this sexy text tonight" you'll have him racing over to your house for a quickie... And I know that's not what you're focused on. Anyone can pull that off. Just promise the sex. What you want is for him to FALL for you. Not use you as his booty call. I'm not going to kid you that if you came here hoping for filthy, vulgar quotes to copy and paste, you're going to be disappointed.
Hey, even if I gave you some nasty texts like that, you'd still feel that way - because THOSE texts aren't what he really wants.
(If they worked, you wouldn't be googling "sexy texts to turn a man on," right?)
YOUR goal should be this: Flash him. Kind of like when you give him a little flash of cleavage, or leg, or butt, and he rewards you with a look of lewd desire.
When you give him that little flash, he'll be curious, but wanting more. Which is how you want it.
So start off mysterious and only hinting at the dirty thoughts running through your brain.
Texting Step 3) Keep things natural...
Keep your texting as in-the-moment as you can. You want any dirty or regular text you send to feel like it sprang out of your day organically.
Keep him on his toes...
Guys have a very keen sense of when something is being thrown at us to manipulate us.
So don't send him a dirty text if you're not really feeling a bit randy. Men know that women don't think about sex quite as much as we do, so we'll find it an occasional delight if you do text us something ... inspirational.
But we'll also suspect something if you send sexy messages to us too often. Something won't seem quite right.
So you want a few dirty texts that will get him thinking about you?
Some dirty texts that will get him in the mood for love?
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