Dirty text messages are a great way to get a guy's attention, as you probably know. In fact, I've got 7 dirty good text messages that you'll want to use on him right in this article...
But your faithful author here isn't going to just hand you words and tell you to blindly send them out to all the guys you know. That would actually be very irresponsible of me - or anyone, really.
I see a lot of sites that promise if you'll "send this sexy text tonight" you'll have him racing over to your house for a quickie... And I know that's not what you're focused on. Anyone can pull that off. Just promise the sex. What you want is for him to FALL for you. Not use you as his booty call. I'm not going to kid you that if you came here hoping for filthy, vulgar quotes to copy and paste, you're going to be disappointed.
Hey, even if I gave you some nasty texts like that, you'd still feel that way - because THOSE texts aren't what he really wants.
(If they worked, you wouldn't be googling "sexy texts to turn a man on," right?)
YOUR goal should be this: Flash him. Kind of like when you give him a little flash of cleavage, or leg, or butt, and he rewards you with a look of lewd desire.
When you give him that little flash, he'll be curious, but wanting more. Which is how you want it.
Before I get to those 7 dirty texts that will get him hot for you, you need to know what your real goal is...
So the first thing you want to do is:
Texting Step 1) Figure out what result you want...
So start off mysterious and only hinting at the dirty thoughts running through your brain.
Texting Step 3) Keep things natural...
Keep your texting as in-the-moment as you can. You want any dirty or regular text you send to feel like it sprang out of your day organically.
Keep him on his toes...
Guys have a very keen sense of when something is being thrown at us to manipulate us.
So don't send him a dirty text if you're not really feeling a bit randy. Men know that women don't think about sex quite as much as we do, so we'll find it an occasional delight if you do text us something ... inspirational.
But we'll also suspect something if you send sexy messages to us too often. Something won't seem quite right.
So you want a few dirty texts that will get him thinking about you?
Some dirty texts that will get him in the mood for love?
Here you go - starting off with:
Sexy text message for him #1: "Do you think side-boob is sexy?"
Sure, you can even ask him about under-boob, but anything that mentions boobs immediately makes a man space out and go into the breast-zone.
The word itself - booooobs - makes us relish the thought of wallowing in that warm squishiness...
Sorry, I just got lost there for a second.
So any text with a hintof boob in it is a good thing. Especially if you can make him think about yours.
Sexy text #2: "If I was with you, I would have my hands under the blanket right now..."
Yeah, send this one at bedtime and just count on one hand how long it takes for a response from him.
Turn up the heat...
Again, you're not going to be filthy - you're only going to hint at what *might* happen if you were there.
The beauty of texting is that it's all a great big tease - and that always works to your favor. You're trying to stir up trouble, not start it just yet.
Sexy sorta dirty text for him #3: "I can feel waves of heat coming off my body right now..."
Use sensory images to get him going. Anytime he can imagine the sensation of what you're saying, that will double the impact of your texts.
That text isn't even all that sexual - I mean, you could have just finished working out for all he knows.
But he won't care.
He'll just want to know ONE thing: What is making you hot?
And where is all that heat?
Which leads us to the next sexy text message for him that will get him turned on:
Dirty text message to make him hotter than Alabama Asphalt #4: "I'd invite you over, but I don't know if I can keep my hands to myself..."
Again, you just want to leave him THINKING about what that means, notTELLING him. He's a big boy, he can figure it out, right?
Which brings me to how you ANSWER a man who questions your text back...
Leave a little room for mystery...
You should never explain your texts to a man. I see women fall into this trap all the time.
For example, she sends him a text like this one, and then he sends back:
"What do you mean?"
And then she proceeds to freak out, thinking that he's seriously asking her what that text actually means.
He knows. And if he doesn't, let him stew on it until he does.
It's not your job to fill the space in between your IQ levels.
The best thing you can do to a man is leave him wondering about you - or something you said to him. Obviously, you don't want to be purposely confusing.
Just give him enough to chew on that he is thinking about you when you're not around.
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