How To Make Him Miss You And Want You Again…

How To Make Him Miss You And Want You Again…

Early in a relationship, you hear it all the time: “I miss you!” 

“I miss you MORE…”

“I miss you the MOST!”

Yeah, it’s kind of teenager-y to go back and forth like this, but you get the point…

Simpler times…

When you’re first falling for someone, you can never get enough of the other person. They’re always on your mind. You miss them even when you’re WITH THEM, for gosh sakes.

But as time goes on, you long for the connection you felt at the start. The tingle of excitement when you see his name come up on your phone…

Sometimes you wonder if he’s even thinking about you…

And that’s when you probably realize: “I miss him missing ME!”

All humans crave that feeling of being wanted and desired by another. It gives us a feeling of value we crave. 

So today, we’re going to take a quick plunge into the world of getting him to miss you – AND want you again.

Whether you took a break, or maybe you’re struggling at the moment to get him to love you, you’ll find tips here you can use.

Here are the 5 Tips to make him miss you:

How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 1: Pause The Communication…

Yeah, this includes social media.

Make him miss you.

And here’s why…

There’s a basic psychological principle I want you to understand…

We want what we can’t have.

I know, I know. Brilliant, Carlos. You just summed up all the game-playing of the last century.

But hear me out…

The key to triggering desire for something – or someone – lies in how much we think it’s ours for the taking. It’s true of nearly EVERYTHING in your life, whether you believe it or not.

I GUARANTEE you that if you really keenly want a hot sports car now, you’ll want it less AFTER you actually get it.

I GUARANTEE you that if you really really want that beautiful jacket now, you’ll want it less AFTER you actually get it.

It’s

Human

Nature…

Dating remorse?

You can want it to be different, but it won’t ever be. Not in your lifetime, anyway.

And that’s GOOD news! Because that empowers you to steer a man away from some other shameless manipulator and into your arms. Instead of that other woman getting him.

I’ll tell you more about how that works in a minute…

How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 2: Trigger His Memory…

This one is pretty slick – and I believe it’s the reason women know to use perfume when courting a guy…

Here’s a classic trick that works: Send him a postcard

(You ever see one of those before? People used to use them all the time to brag about where they were vacationing…)

But not just any postcard.

Simply address it to him. Put a big fat red kiss on it in red lipstick, and cover it with some tape so it doesn’t smudge.

Then, spray the postcard with your perfume and mail it to him.

Or, heck, just stick it under his door…

When he sees the lips, smells your scent, it will trigger his memory of you.

S.W.A.K!

Our sense of smell is directly connected to our deepest memories, and can trigger his emotions in an instant.

He’ll be smelling that card daily, triggering his memories of you.

Over and over and over…

This one is guaranteed to do all the right things and get him obsessed.

How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 3: Cut him off…

If you’re in contact with him now, you need to use this one.

The big mistake I see many women make with guys is to spend TOO MUCH time with him. When you do that, you’re ruining your romantic value to him. This is directly connected to TIP 1 – except now you have to manage how much time he gets with you.

  • Don’t let your self-control ruin your chances with him…

  • Keep your dates short

  • Keep your time together limited

We don’t fall in love with someone when they’re with us…

We fall in love while we’re wishing they were with us.

Never enough time…

When he’s actually with you, he’s satisfied. He’s getting nearly everything he wants. (Well, most of what he wants…)

When he’s not with you, he’s DIS-satisfied. Which is the state we men LOVE the most.

It inspires us to work, to chase, to pursue that which we want most.

Men don’t act out of complacency and comfort…
We act out of our DIS-satisfaction. 

Remember this rule above all else.

How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 4: Make Him Your Friend…

If there’s one thing guys hate, it’s being in the FRIEND ZONE…

Ask any man, and he’ll tell you exactly 2,458 times that he liked a woman and was told:

  • “I’m not sure I feel that way about you…”
  • “I don’t think about you like that…”
  • “Can we just be friends?”

Usually with an “Aw! You’re so sweet!” and an infuriating peck on the cheek right afterwards.

(As I’m writing this, I’m getting major flashbacks…)

HOWEVER…

There’s a good part of that experience for some guys, and that’s the time period where we’re wondering IF we’re just friends.

Not fun.

I’ll bet you can relate to that feeling, yeah?

So let him wonder a little bit. I’ll bet that if you’re wondering about him right now, there’s a good chance he thinks you’re too available for him to take seriously.

So take that away.

Stop making it so obvious you’re into him…

Treat him like he’s just a “friend” and he’ll aspire to be much more.

Remember, these quirks of psychology are in his head – whether you want them to be or not. It’s how humans work.

So why not use them for something good? Like getting him invested in you…

Instead of another woman doing it… because sooner or later another woman will use these tactics on him.

How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 5: Trigger Mystery And Curiosity..

The women that attract men know the secret to winning a man’s heart is not between his legs – it’s between his ears.

When you can trigger the right thoughts in his head, his heart will open up to you.

Mystery and intrigue are the key emotion you want him to associate with you. The more he thinks he KNOWS you and has you figured out, the less romantic control you have…

And the less of a relationship you’ll have as well.

The best thing you can do to a man is trigger his fascination with you…

When a man is thinking about you, you’re on his mind. In his thoughts…

And even better if he’s fantasizing!

When you’ve got him wondering about you, you are only days away from having him fall in love with you – and likely falling in love with you all over again.

Are you woman of mystery…?

He’ll want you more than anything else. 

Or anyONE.

When a man makes you his priority, you’re always on his mind

He’s thinking about you, obsessing about you, and fantasizing about being with you…

If you can make a man think about you all the time –

He’s YOURS.

He’ll feel a warm pull towards you that’s irresistible.

When he sees you, he’ll feel a surge of exquisite desire for you…

His hunger to be near you and looking at you will be insatiable –  You’ll catch him adoring you with his eyes all the time…

When you’re with him, just casually slip in these Passion Phrases into conversation with him

Or just send him a Passion Phrase in one of your texts…

The moment the words enter his mind, he’ll start to tell you all about how much he wants you and needs you…

You can discover how these Passion Phrases work HERE…


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